With only 320 points in the chart, May was born, and no one thought he could finish his life in Ukraine.
Not only married to a young 12-year-old supermodel, but also lived in a three-storey villa with a swimming pool, becoming the "life winner" envious of countless people.
But who could have expected that this 11-year-old transnational marriage would eventually end with the wife joining the arms of Polish farmers.
From infinite scenery to broken marriage and displacement, what sharp turn did Mei Aicai's life encounter?
Lost in Ukraine.
In 1983, May was born in Hebei in a family of ordinary workers.
Although his parents attach importance to education, he has little interest in books since childhood and is addicted to online games.
In the 2001 college entrance examination, he only scored 320 points, and he didn't even reach the specialist line. The idea of finding a way out by studying was completely broken.
The young spirit he did not give up, thinking of staying at home with it, rather than go out and break into it.
At the time, people heard that the threshold for studying in Ukraine was low, and the tuition and living costs were also cheap, he did not hesitate much, and immediately a Russian class.
Holding the textbook every day, hard-hearted, hard-hearted for several months of basic terms, and finally able to say a few words of daily conversation.
In the winter of 2002, May took all of her household’s savings and took a plane to Ukraine to Harkov.
Life is hard when you first arrive in a foreign country, and language barrier is the biggest hurdle.
Listening to the teacher's lecture in class is like listening to a gobbledygook, and even going to the supermarket to buy things is difficult.
Once he wanted to buy a piece of chocolate bread for breakfast, half the day without saying it clearly, and finally the shopkeeper gave him a black wheat bread.
He sat down on the street with dry hard bread, bitten a bite of acid in his head for the first time out a little regret, wondering whether he was too impulsive.
But Mei Aisi is not a person who gives up easily. He simply put down his shyness and took the initiative to talk to the locals when he saw them. Even if he didn't talk well at first, he bite the bullet and talk down.
When encountering words I didn't know, I took out the dictionary I brought with me and flipped through them. At night, I even asked my classmates to help me make up Russian.
Thus, after the great half of the year, not only has the language shut down, but also slowly grasped the local life habits, and the neighbors can also talk a few common words.
After gaining a firm foothold, Mei Aicai began to think about making money.
He didn't pick a job. He started as a part-time animation designer, and later co-opened a Chinese restaurant with someone. He helped in the kitchen and worked as a cashier at the front desk.
While saving his first bucket of gold, he also discovered new opportunities-many local people in Ukraine like China goods, but they are inconvenient to buy.
May loves to try to buy small objects from home and slowly make the business bigger.
Later in the Chinese business circles in Kharkov, he also gained a little fame.
Double harvests in career and love
As soon as my career started to improve, love came quietly.
May loves to play ping-pong, and on the pitch meets an Ukrainian elderly man, the two of whom have a special conversation.
The elder admired him very much and introduced his daughter to him.
This love affair allowed him to integrate into local life more quickly, and the "prospective father-in-law" also helped him a lot in his career. He was regarded as his first "noble person" in Ukraine.
Although this feeling did not eventually go together, it also laid a lot of foundation for his subsequent development in Ukraine.
In the summer of 2011, she met 16-year-old model Dasha while taking pictures on the street.
He took the initiative to take photos of Dasha and her friend. The two of them had a very good chat about photography and left each other's contact information.
During the conversation, the two began to feel good.
Dassa had a boyfriend at the time, and the two were 12 years apart, but even under the pressure, they went together.
In 2013, at the age of 18, Dasha reached the legal age of marriage in Ukraine, and the two officially registered marriage.
After marriage, Mei Aicai began to build her ideal home. He spent a lot of money and built a three-story villa with a swimming pool and garden in Kharkiv.
In 2014, their mixed-race daughter was born, and the life of the family of three is as written in a fairy tale.
It was at this time that May Love accidentally burned in the home.
He sent photos of his wife as a car model to the car forum, and the blonde dacha with a luxury car, at once attracted a lot of attention.
With the opportunity to share the daily and cultural differences across national families on short video platforms, he quickly saved millions of fans, from a businessman to a small celebrity.
Traffic brought a lot of business opportunities. He established a multinational marriage and love club and also got involved in surrogacy consulting services that were legal in Ukraine at that time.
In addition to the steady development of foreign trade business, during that time he was really good at spring.
Crises collapsed one after another
But the good days didn't last long, and the crisis found the door.
The new coronavirus outbreak in 2020 suddenly hit May's foreign trade business first.
International logistics almost stopped, the order volume suddenly dropped by more than half, and the company's revenue plummeted.
During that time, he was busy dealing with business problems, did not have the energy to think about short video content, and the works released became rough.
Many old fans complain that the content has become corrupt and no longer focused as before.
The blow that really broke him down came in 2022. After the Russia-Ukraine conflict broke out, Kharkiv became a frontline city.
For many years, his factory was destroyed by artillery fires, the inventory and production equipment in the warehouse were completely destroyed, and for many years the heart was transformed overnight.
For safety, he can only hide in the basement with his family.
Later, he risked his danger and fled to Poland by car, temporarily living in a rural farmhouse provided by a friend.
The overwhelming displacement of life, coupled with the fear of losing fans and the anxiety of falling traffic, made May Love do a lot of unreasonable things.
He began to post some content on social media that couldn't stand scrutiny: sometimes he said that he showed property damaged in the war, but netizens recognized that some photos were old pictures taken before the war.
Sometimes taking the so-called thrilling pictures of hiding shells is questioned as posing because of the contradiction in the details of the scene.
He even said that he had spent all his savings on fleeing, but it wasn't long before local Chinese posted photos of him shopping normally.
These operations aimed at gaining sympathy, quickly led to public opinion phobia, and everyone's impression of him is getting worse.
Because he published false information many times, the platform banned his account after verification.
After this, May Love's reputation completely collapsed, and a large number of fans closed.
While his career went wrong, his marriage also lit up a red light.
During the days of asylum in Poland, tremendous changes in life and economic pressure caused more and more conflicts between husband and wife.
According to May, Dassa met a local Polish farmer through social software and eventually decided to end the marriage.
In early 2024, the couple officially divorced, and Dacia took care of the daughter.
to the light.
In mid-2024, May’s account was finally unlocked.
He started updating the video again, but the content style was completely different from before.
There is no longer the glitz of the past, but more simple fragments of daily life and time spent with my daughter.
Occasionally, I can see a young woman in the video, and it can be seen that he has begun a new relationship.
He also tried to pick up the old banks for small trade, but the scale was much smaller than before, and could never return to the former.
He would sometimes feel sorry, but now, on the contrary, he appreciates this casual day more.
Looking back at Mei Aici's twelve years, it's actually quite sad.
With a daring brainstorm and action, he seized the opportunity at the time, from disappointed people at home to steady-footed businessmen in Ukraine, achieving surprising class crossings.
But later he was too in a hurry to obtain, some of the chosen commercial routes were not stable enough, and blindly pursued the flow, and the result was that when he encountered a failure, he immediately planted a big tip, paying a heavy price.
His marriage also hides a reality: transnational marriage looks glamorous, but behind it, two people need to face cultural differences, pressure in life and plan the future together.
Once you encounter a big storm like war, the two people have a different understanding of stability, it is likely to be the spark of the relationship.
Mei Aici's life is like a play with a realistic theme, with its ups and downs particularly obvious.
In fact, this also reminds us that the path of life is long, there are the peaks of the wind and the water, and there are the valleys of clashes, these are often happening.
When you are busy pursuing fame and fortune, keeping the bottom line of being a man, cherishing the people around you, and keeping a clear head may be the foundation to stand firmly when encountering wind and rain.
conclusion
The value of life is never in how high you stand at the summit, but in whether after falling to the bottom, you can keep the heart and find back the original simple real self.
References:
1. Sina Finance: "Ukrainian Chinese Internet celebrity Mei Aisi who published false war videos was dealt with by the platform: her account was banned for one week" 2022-02-28
2. Huashang Daily: "Chinese students who failed the college entrance examination study in Ukraine and become CEO and marry 18-year-old wife" 2014-12-09