The war made the “rare animals” the “rare men”, the pressure of women is great! recently Ukraine’s Kiev, Lviv, Odessa these cities, you can walk around anyway to find that the streets are all girls, but the cute guys have become “rare animals”. don’t misunderstand, men are less than the “peach flowers” came, but the war is too bad, many families even hard work not to hope to go home, marriage, children have become the “challenge of the problem.”
To put it bluntly, the streets in Ukraine are not without excitement, but without young men who can support their lives. The "emptiness" in the eyes of girls is more worrying than the loneliness on the streets. It is not that there is a lack of people to fall in love, but that even the confidence to live a stable life has been destroyed by the war.
You go to the old town of Kiev and turn around and know that the waitresses in the street coffee shop are all twenty-first girls, the grocery market carrying a big bag of potatoes is the aunt, even before specialized in helping people move furniture, now also replaced with a girl with a horse tail.
Occasionally can look at a young guy, ten or eighty-nine are injured in the leg, just retreated from the battlefield, the road has to slowly disappear, where is the "charming guy"'s livelihood? want to find a strong guy who can go to the supermarket together, help carry things, than in the winter to find fresh cherries is more difficult.
Don't think that girls don't want to fall in love because they really don't dare to think deeply. Once in a bakery in Lviv, I heard two girls chatting. One said that they had just been with a partner. The boy's mobile phone never dared to mute during a date, for fear that the recruitment office would suddenly call.
Another whispered, saying that her former object just received notification last week, the first day also ate a dumpling together, and the next day packed away, now it is not even known if it can be contacted.
Even "to go to a movie next week again" did not dare to say, afraid that this word became an empty promise, marriage is not to mention, who is willing to put their days at the risk of "not knowing tomorrow he is not there"?
Even harder, the days have gone by, and now the unemployment rate of women in Ukraine has risen to 45%, what is the idea?
The girl who used to work as a tour guide in Odessa is now gone. She can only go to a small restaurant by the sea to wash dishes. A white-collar worker who used to work as an administrative officer in the Kiev office building is now half of the office building is empty and can only go to a convenience store to work as a cashier. The money she earns a month is converted to RMB 123.
The price of the bread is 65% more expensive than before the war, the previous three dollars can buy a big leopard, now more than five dollars, a liter of milk is more dangerous, the pre-war five, now directly to six, the salary just enough to buy milk bread, want to buy some eggs have to hesitate in front of the shelf for half a day, not to mention the elderly, care of the house, some girls have to work two times, during the day, the money in the evening to bring the children, and the eyes are all red blood.
The most worrying is not the difficulty of the present, is the day can not see the head "empty", less and less children in the school, Odessa has a primary school, last year one grade has four classes, this year directly merged into two, the teacher said previously in the classroom panic, now quietly can hear the sound of the wind outside the window.
For the work of repairing water pipes and lifting heavy objects in the community, someone used to call for half a day, but now it has to wait three or four days, because most of the young masters in the maintenance team have been recruited, and the ones who come are either old people in their fifties or female masters who have studied with them for two days, and their work is slow and laborious.
Everyone understands that a country's days are followed by young people, now young people are either on the battlefield, or in the hard work of eating, even the idea of having a child does not dare to have, the maternal and child care department of the hospital, pregnant women who had previously tested pregnancy, now the doors of the clinic are often empty.
You say that if this day goes on again, until the girls on the street are old, the children in the school are less, what will the day after?
In fact, it may be difficult for us to really feel the same way when we look through the screen, but think about it. If we open our eyes every day, we have to count whether there is enough bread to eat. We are afraid that we can't support ourselves after working two jobs. Even the people we like may suddenly disappear. If it is you, how will you survive this period?
Why don't we chat in the comment area? What is the confidence in your eyes to survive difficult times?
To put it bluntly, the streets in Ukraine are not without excitement, but without young men who can support their lives. The "emptiness" in the eyes of girls is more worrying than the loneliness on the streets. It is not that there is a lack of people to fall in love, but that even the confidence to live a stable life has been destroyed by the war.
You go to the old town of Kiev and turn around and know that the waitresses in the street coffee shop are all twenty-first girls, the grocery market carrying a big bag of potatoes is the aunt, even before specialized in helping people move furniture, now also replaced with a girl with a horse tail.
Occasionally can look at a young guy, ten or eighty-nine are injured in the leg, just retreated from the battlefield, the road has to slowly disappear, where is the "charming guy"'s livelihood? want to find a strong guy who can go to the supermarket together, help carry things, than in the winter to find fresh cherries is more difficult.
Don't think that girls don't want to fall in love because they really don't dare to think deeply. Once in a bakery in Lviv, I heard two girls chatting. One said that they had just been with a partner. The boy's mobile phone never dared to mute during a date, for fear that the recruitment office would suddenly call.
Another whispered, saying that her former object just received notification last week, the first day also ate a dumpling together, and the next day packed away, now it is not even known if it can be contacted.
Even "to go to a movie next week again" did not dare to say, afraid that this word became an empty promise, marriage is not to mention, who is willing to put their days at the risk of "not knowing tomorrow he is not there"?
Even harder, the days have gone by, and now the unemployment rate of women in Ukraine has risen to 45%, what is the idea?
The girl who used to work as a tour guide in Odessa is now gone. She can only go to a small restaurant by the sea to wash dishes. A white-collar worker who used to work as an administrative officer in the Kiev office building is now half of the office building is empty and can only go to a convenience store to work as a cashier. The money she earns a month is converted to RMB 123.
The price of the bread is 65% more expensive than before the war, the previous three dollars can buy a big leopard, now more than five dollars, a liter of milk is more dangerous, the pre-war five, now directly to six, the salary just enough to buy milk bread, want to buy some eggs have to hesitate in front of the shelf for half a day, not to mention the elderly, care of the house, some girls have to work two times, during the day, the money in the evening to bring the children, and the eyes are all red blood.
The most worrying is not the difficulty of the present, is the day can not see the head "empty", less and less children in the school, Odessa has a primary school, last year one grade has four classes, this year directly merged into two, the teacher said previously in the classroom panic, now quietly can hear the sound of the wind outside the window.
For the work of repairing water pipes and lifting heavy objects in the community, someone used to call for half a day, but now it has to wait three or four days, because most of the young masters in the maintenance team have been recruited, and the ones who come are either old people in their fifties or female masters who have studied with them for two days, and their work is slow and laborious.
Everyone understands that a country's days are followed by young people, now young people are either on the battlefield, or in the hard work of eating, even the idea of having a child does not dare to have, the maternal and child care department of the hospital, pregnant women who had previously tested pregnancy, now the doors of the clinic are often empty.
You say that if this day goes on again, until the girls on the street are old, the children in the school are less, what will the day after?
In fact, it may be difficult for us to really feel the same way when we look through the screen, but think about it. If we open our eyes every day, we have to count whether there is enough bread to eat. We are afraid that we can't support ourselves after working two jobs. Even the people we like may suddenly disappear. If it is you, how will you survive this period?
Why don't we chat in the comment area? What is the confidence in your eyes to survive difficult times?